Q. I strapped her helmet on right.. gave her a little push, she was so excited riding a 2 wheeler.. and has been doing well since we started almost 3 weeks ago. 2 days ago she lost control of the handlebars and fell, smacking her face on the pavement and knocking out a front tooth.
No stitches, a cut bottom lip and her chin has scrapes..thank god she had her helmet on so her head was fine.
My problem is that.. I Was probably crying harder than she was. I tried to stay calm but I was terrified at all the blood, once we got to the emergency room and saw the dentist the next day the doctors said an antibiotic is needed incase of infection.
My question is, why do I feel so horrible about this. I cannot let myself get over it. Her falling, I want to protect my baby, but i know i cant stop any bad thing from happening. Im told this was not under my control. that any kid learning to ride a bike can fall. But I feel so guilty and I keep replaying it over and over in my head. Its making me sick.
To top it off the poor kid has a missing front tooth now and it will be like that till shes at least 7...UGH... i want to throw the bike away now!
Any advice from those whove been there and had a little one lose a tooth unnaturally?
AHH I know.. the helicopter helmet.. im trying not to be a helicopter mom.. actually im normally not.. which is why i figured id let her give riding a 2 wheeler a shot.
I also lost my first tooth at 4...I had my two front teeth in for my school pics in kindergarten! Well halfway in. my 7 year olds front teeth look like mine when I was 5.
Anyhow.. I am going to look into a football helmet for her! LOL just kidding.
thanks for all the great responses.. I really appreciate it.. and ya know.. shes pretty darn cute with that missing tooth. Today she figured out that a straw fits in that spot perfectly. So proud of my strong little girl!
thanks again!
No stitches, a cut bottom lip and her chin has scrapes..thank god she had her helmet on so her head was fine.
My problem is that.. I Was probably crying harder than she was. I tried to stay calm but I was terrified at all the blood, once we got to the emergency room and saw the dentist the next day the doctors said an antibiotic is needed incase of infection.
My question is, why do I feel so horrible about this. I cannot let myself get over it. Her falling, I want to protect my baby, but i know i cant stop any bad thing from happening. Im told this was not under my control. that any kid learning to ride a bike can fall. But I feel so guilty and I keep replaying it over and over in my head. Its making me sick.
To top it off the poor kid has a missing front tooth now and it will be like that till shes at least 7...UGH... i want to throw the bike away now!
Any advice from those whove been there and had a little one lose a tooth unnaturally?
AHH I know.. the helicopter helmet.. im trying not to be a helicopter mom.. actually im normally not.. which is why i figured id let her give riding a 2 wheeler a shot.
I also lost my first tooth at 4...I had my two front teeth in for my school pics in kindergarten! Well halfway in. my 7 year olds front teeth look like mine when I was 5.
Anyhow.. I am going to look into a football helmet for her! LOL just kidding.
thanks for all the great responses.. I really appreciate it.. and ya know.. shes pretty darn cute with that missing tooth. Today she figured out that a straw fits in that spot perfectly. So proud of my strong little girl!
thanks again!
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Kids will have accidents. It's not your fault. When she is 20 you will look back at pictures and remember this. She will be ok. Her teeth will come in fine and kids at that young age don't judge too often.
Kids will have accidents. It's not your fault. When she is 20 you will look back at pictures and remember this. She will be ok. Her teeth will come in fine and kids at that young age don't judge too often.
my 3 and 1/2 yr old son does not want to wear clothes. also ever since his 1 and a 1/2 yr old sister made a?
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deal about his potty training he still wants to use a diaper. how can i get him to wear his clothes?
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My 3 year old does the same thing. I even caught her outside during the summer riding her bike without pants or underwear on! I thought it would get better in the winter, but as we have an infant in the house we have to keep the house warm. It is a struggle everyday for me with her clothes. I do daycare for my sisters 3 kids all under 3 so she will strip down and I wont even notice as I'm involved in the other kids. Lately I've kept a VERY close eye on her, when I notice pants coming off, "no keep them on its cold in the house" or whatever you tell your son. With my daughter I have to be consistent and keep a close eye on her, today we did pretty good. Getting dinner ready I found she had stripped and so told her to put your clothes on so we can sit and eat dinner. We don't want any naked butts at the dinner table" I got an "Ohhhh Ok" like maybe it clicked? Who knows, good luck to you
My 3 year old does the same thing. I even caught her outside during the summer riding her bike without pants or underwear on! I thought it would get better in the winter, but as we have an infant in the house we have to keep the house warm. It is a struggle everyday for me with her clothes. I do daycare for my sisters 3 kids all under 3 so she will strip down and I wont even notice as I'm involved in the other kids. Lately I've kept a VERY close eye on her, when I notice pants coming off, "no keep them on its cold in the house" or whatever you tell your son. With my daughter I have to be consistent and keep a close eye on her, today we did pretty good. Getting dinner ready I found she had stripped and so told her to put your clothes on so we can sit and eat dinner. We don't want any naked butts at the dinner table" I got an "Ohhhh Ok" like maybe it clicked? Who knows, good luck to you
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