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(Excuse me for any spelling mistakes)
Well...
I need a way to become less afraid, and be more happy, and not have the constant fear of my mom.
I use the word "mom" instead of "grandma" due to mom is faster to write, but my real mother and father deserted me, and so did my grandfather. Well, I was in school awhile ago, then I got homeschooled (cyberschooled) and that took away my school friends. Then, a while later, my 4 friends at my apartment complex, 2 of them got BB guns and they played with them once. All 4 got botted out of the apartment complex (they were all my cloest friends, too)
We moved to a different state, with my aunt.
Since then, my grandma has become more tempermental and angry. I have become afreaid of her and never go a night without thinking if she was going to kill me tonight. She now dosen't allow me to go outside because I'm going to get kidnapped or raped or something.
When I was rideing my bike, it was an open area with a long strip of houses, no cars
in sigh.
So I decided to let my energy out, and sped up a tad bit, makeing out distance around 50 feet away, and I slowed down, and she jolted by me, and I was grounded and she cept on screaming at me.
I got a C in something in my school, and she threw a big fuss over it, I was grounded, and she yelled at me and said so many hatred things to me.
She has made me Antisocial, not having any friends, or even going outside.
My mom blames me for being anti social and havving no friends, she says that it's from me never wanting to go outside. I am afraid to tell her "I want to go outside! Let me outside, I'm so lonley!" the last time I gave her a command she got scary, I hid in my room the whole day.
She just got some surgery on her face, so she's out cold in her bed, that's why I'm writeing this.
I have overheard some of her conversations of how she used to take out knives in the middle of the njight thinking "My kids would be so much better if I did this" but for some reason she never
did it.
I'm about to be 11...
Is it realy my fault like she says that I am antisocial, not havving any friends, or going outside because I'm not allowed to?
We moved in with my aunt, and she gives me some confort, but she has a tight scedule and I don't have the chance to talk to her that often.
My Aunt got a puppy and wants me to train it, I was glad due to the fact I didn't have to ask to go in the backyard to let the dog out.
My grandma is 67, according to my Aunt.
Answer
There aren't really any home cures.
My biggest concern is the remark you made about the knives. If that's true your grandmother probably has at least some emotional problems. At the same time, I can understand why she would worry about you if you're out and around by yourself.
One thing that makes your situation difficult is if you're not in school. Kids who go to school get to have a little social life there (not to mention get an education). They also get to talk about problems/worries they have with a school counselor. If kids can be out playing some sport (even if its organized) or taking dancing lessons or doing some other activity they get to meet more kids too.
Is there any way you can talk to your grandmother, tell her you'd like to go to counseling "to be able to talk about what you can do with your life" or else "because you're feeling really lonely". Would she let you go to a counselor, so you could start by talking to them about what's going on?
In fairness to her, she may be exhausted and frustrated with whatever is going on in her life and with having to worry about keeping you safe.
What about your aunt? Is she someone sensible and reliable? Could you talk to her?
Believe me, when I make this guess its important you realize I pretty much don't know what I'm talking about. Still, I'm going to guess that maybe you're feeling tense and anxious with whatever is going on; and having "stress chemicals" going on as a result of being tense could be making you worry about your grandmother killing you more than you really would have to.
Could you talk to some adult (even your grandmother) and ask if you could go to school if you promise to stay out away from any kids who do anything they shouldn't? Could you ask if you could just go to school and maybe join some things for after school? Tell her you're lonely, and you promise you will not do anything you aren't supposed to do; but you just want to go to school and join some activities.
Could you say something about how you know its a lot for your grandmother to have her worries, and how you'd like the chance to have her worry less about you because you'd be in school, you'd come home and do your homework, and you'd just be involved with group activities at school? Maybe you wouldn't be out riding wherever you want on your bike, but you'd meet friends, have things to do, and get good grades if you did your homework.
I don't know your grandmother, but think about this: If she doesn't let you go out because she worries you'll be kidnapped or raped or something - don't you think it must be because she loves you and would die if anything awful happened to you? Do you even know that the thing about what she said about the knives is true?
If you can't do anything else, and if you're really that afraid; maybe if you could call your state's children's services (DCFS or DSS or DCS, depending on the state) and ask the people you talk to what ou can do they may be able to help. You should not be in fear, and maybe your fear isn't even fear you should have; because maybe your grandmother would never, ever, do anything. Still, if you're afraid you need to ask some sensible adult to help you.
What if you say to your grandmother, "I keep wishing I could talk to a counselor about my mother and father not being around ever. Do you think I could see one?"
If I go on the exercise bike everyday will it reduce my blood pressure?
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My blood pressure is high so the risk of getting diabetes have been increased. What I wanna know is if I go on the exercise bike everyday will it help reduce my blood pressure and the risk of getting diabetes? Btw I'm 18.
Answer
1. The best and time tested medicine lies in Allopathy only. In our previous generations, we have seen many a no. of paralysis patients and now-a-days, the paralysis cases are the least.
2. Cardio exercise[s] on the tread-meal ike is fine. But that alone is not sufficient.
3. â¢Real Symptoms of Diabetes*:
. Sudden loss of weight, heavy loss of stamina, getting tired very fast, Severe pain in calf muscles [below knee joints], reeling sensation after heavy lunch/dinner, unhealed wounds/injuries/gum infections, excessive thirst/hunger, excessive urination, blurred vision, frequent burning sensation/numbness in hands/legs and above all tensions add to the chief symptoms of diabetes. But, don't worry. See a doctor at once.
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Type-2 diabetes means----pancreas is working to some extent.
Type-1 diabetes means----total failure of pancreas to produce insulin.
Acupressure techniques & natural remedies can cure diabetes in 45 days
â¢INSTAT DIAGNOSIS &PREVENTION OF DIABETES:
â¢For instant diagnosis, U may refer acupressure maps published hereunder, with links. Relevant Acupressure points to diagnose diabetes instantaneously.
Point No.25 -- Pancreas -- acu point located just below @ the junction -- the base of little finger and ring finger in both of the palms.
Point No. 27 -- Adrenal gland - acu point, located below @ the junction -- the base of index finger and middle finger in both of the palms..
Point No.16 -- master point for lymph located @ middle of the wrist on both palms.
If U press these points hard with Ur thumb[s]; they shall be tender.
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â¢PREVENTION:
1. The rice lovers should develop aversion to rice, McDonald's pizzas, burgers, KFC fried chicken, Egg-yoke, Cadbury chocolates, bars, which are rich in calories. A single chocolate can give U 1000 calories, which our kids chew it just like that + normal foodstuff. They are pro-diabetic.
2. Develop love for chapathi without oil--Phulkas. A single Phulka gives U about 50 calories of energy; add 1 tsp of cooking oil, it doubles to 100 cal., and add one tsp of dalda--energy 150 cal.,calories, and one tsp of pure ghee, 200 calories. Prudent to eat 4 phulkas than 1 chapathi fried out of with ghee.
3. Chewing Ur foodstuff for 25 times in Ur mouth is a MUST to prevent diabetes permanently.
4. Acupressure TechniquesâNO MEDICATION. NO SIDE EFFECTS. NO HOSPITALIZATION. NO COSTS. IT IS SAFE ALSO.
With ur thumb, press ur/his/her palms and soles, wrists and ankles on both sides. Suppose pain is felt while pressing a particular point in the palm/sole, u have to press the surrounding areaâjust like u r pumping out air from that painful point. The blocked energy in any internal organ, be it lungs, heart, stomach, kidneys, pancreas, liver, etc., shall be released along with toxins if any. As a last point u must press middle part of each palm/sole; so that toxins, if any, shall be excreted/purged through urine without affecting the kidneys.
It should be done in an empty stomach or 2 hours after meals. With this, all the endocrine glands and their hormonal secretions shall be regulated. All internal organs shall function up to optimal levels. Ur entire immune system gets invigorated to produce antibodies.
Remote control Acupressure points given by the God. For Treatment, hard-pressure is to be applied on & around these points with Ur thumb and middle finger.
Palms/soles:
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Dorsal side of Palms & soles:
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5. (A) Drink 2 glasses of gold/silver/copper/ iron charged water reduced from 4 glasses of water everyday.
How to reduce excess heat and reactivate proper production of insulin:
(B) As the first thing in the morning, drink one cup (2 ounces) of fresh juice of green coriander leaves. Avoid any food/drink for the next 15/20 minutes.
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In case green coriander leaves are not available take 2 lady's fingers (tffst) cut them in half-soak then in half a cup of water. Keep it overnight, squeeze them in the morning-strain this water. The sticky water covers the inside wall of the stomach and prevents sugar being sucked from the stomach. And thus helps in curing Diabetes.
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