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Sometimes because of situation and condition, parents leave their children with nannies, relatives, grandparents, to work. But when they are around, they love to talk about themselves, not asking about your life, what do you do, your plan...and rarely motivate. They also rarely take you to vacation, and have talks. It is like only checking you are still alive.it happens from the very behinning a children can remember. I was a passive and quiet children but my head is always crowded with thoughts and since very little my parent were not attrntive and treat me like making me as decoration. Will it emotionally harm the children? As an adult children, how to cope with that.
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I am he 40 year old adult child of very successful, educated, beautiful people. I grew up in a big home, raised by a grandmother who hated me and parents who were too busy for me. They never cared what I thought as long as I fully agreed with them. Otherwise, I was wrong and there was no discussing it.
I am a successful, more well rounded human being than my parents. I spend a lot of time with my kids and nothing interests me more than the thoughts going through their heads. I married a man whom I adore. I coach my kids' activities, I volunteer at their school, I run and ride bikes with them. I'm far far far from perfect and no parent can ever be everything a child deserves- but that is OK, too, because kids also need breathing space as they grow. My kids are welcome to disagree with me, but they have to be able to understand their own inner voices, too. We talk about everything. I try really hard to listen. Sometimes I fail. I think mostly we're doing OK. BTW, I also have a couple of degrees and I own a business. Balance, a good marriage and a good community go a long way in helping to raise children.
You are who you decide to be. You are not just a product of how your parents treat you, as long as they are not totally trying to kill you. You will one day come into your own family. Choose your partner wisely because that decision means more than anything. You have a chance to be the best person you can be. You are not a consequence. You are a decision that only you can make.
Good luck to you. You'll make it through this.
I am he 40 year old adult child of very successful, educated, beautiful people. I grew up in a big home, raised by a grandmother who hated me and parents who were too busy for me. They never cared what I thought as long as I fully agreed with them. Otherwise, I was wrong and there was no discussing it.
I am a successful, more well rounded human being than my parents. I spend a lot of time with my kids and nothing interests me more than the thoughts going through their heads. I married a man whom I adore. I coach my kids' activities, I volunteer at their school, I run and ride bikes with them. I'm far far far from perfect and no parent can ever be everything a child deserves- but that is OK, too, because kids also need breathing space as they grow. My kids are welcome to disagree with me, but they have to be able to understand their own inner voices, too. We talk about everything. I try really hard to listen. Sometimes I fail. I think mostly we're doing OK. BTW, I also have a couple of degrees and I own a business. Balance, a good marriage and a good community go a long way in helping to raise children.
You are who you decide to be. You are not just a product of how your parents treat you, as long as they are not totally trying to kill you. You will one day come into your own family. Choose your partner wisely because that decision means more than anything. You have a chance to be the best person you can be. You are not a consequence. You are a decision that only you can make.
Good luck to you. You'll make it through this.
What are things i can do for earth day?
candy
So im going to do alot of things for earth day, but i don't know what to do besides keep lights off, ride my bike everywhere, and yeahhh.
that's all i know to do :P
So what are some fun easy/no so hard things to do?
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Well I can tell you what I'm doing to give you some idea's! :)
Walking and picking up trash from those morons.
Keeping EVERYTHING in your house shut off for approximately 10 minutes [or longer] it makes a BIG difference! [We did this last year]
*************Other Things********************
Planting a tree/plant. Don't have one? Look in your garage or ask your mom or dad.
Make nature crafts at school or home [like a birdhouse to encourage the bird population]
Use objects that would've otherwise been thrown away to create beautiful works of art...Here, the possibilities are endless:
Turn used guitar strings into a centerpiece,
make a basket from an old orange juice carton,
convert an old floppy disk into a Starship Enterprise,
or wear a skirt made out of old umbrellas
Learn about the enviorment, go to your local library and find some books about the enviorment and/or look online for stuff about the enviorment!
REDUCE,REUSE,RECYCLE ALL DAY LONG.
Get children to recycle their old toys and games..By giving their old toys and games to younger children who could make use of them, older children learn two lessons: One is about giving to others and the second is about reusing and recycling instead of throwing things away. Adults can also do this with clothes, electrical items, books and more. Learn about product exchange communities like Freecycle and other alternatives.
Sing or listen to "Earth day songs."
Try searching for words such as "planet", "Earth", "endangered", "pollution" etc. To help you.
Hold an Earth Day Fair
Maybe your school, your street, your local neighborhood is interested in getting together to have an environmental fair. Things to have at the fair include demonstrations of environmentally-friendly products, children's artwork, healthy/locally grown foods to eat, animal care demonstrations (including wildlife rescue), games for the children made of recycled products, musicians and actors performing environmental music and skits, stalls which are recycling unwanted treasures and books, local environmental organisations presenting their issues and wares. Money raised can go towards a local environmental restoration project or to an environmental group agreed upon by all the participants running the fair.
Teach others about the enviorment
Wear green and/or brown. If you have any badges that have to do with the earth, wear those!
Cook a special Earth Day meal. Plan a menu that uses locally produced foods, is healthy and has minimal impact on the environment. Favour vegetable and bean products, as these use less resources to grow than mass-farmed meat. If you still would like meat, look for locally produced, organic meat. Try and have organic food completely. Decorate the table with recycled decorations made by you and your friends.
Well I can tell you what I'm doing to give you some idea's! :)
Walking and picking up trash from those morons.
Keeping EVERYTHING in your house shut off for approximately 10 minutes [or longer] it makes a BIG difference! [We did this last year]
*************Other Things********************
Planting a tree/plant. Don't have one? Look in your garage or ask your mom or dad.
Make nature crafts at school or home [like a birdhouse to encourage the bird population]
Use objects that would've otherwise been thrown away to create beautiful works of art...Here, the possibilities are endless:
Turn used guitar strings into a centerpiece,
make a basket from an old orange juice carton,
convert an old floppy disk into a Starship Enterprise,
or wear a skirt made out of old umbrellas
Learn about the enviorment, go to your local library and find some books about the enviorment and/or look online for stuff about the enviorment!
REDUCE,REUSE,RECYCLE ALL DAY LONG.
Get children to recycle their old toys and games..By giving their old toys and games to younger children who could make use of them, older children learn two lessons: One is about giving to others and the second is about reusing and recycling instead of throwing things away. Adults can also do this with clothes, electrical items, books and more. Learn about product exchange communities like Freecycle and other alternatives.
Sing or listen to "Earth day songs."
Try searching for words such as "planet", "Earth", "endangered", "pollution" etc. To help you.
Hold an Earth Day Fair
Maybe your school, your street, your local neighborhood is interested in getting together to have an environmental fair. Things to have at the fair include demonstrations of environmentally-friendly products, children's artwork, healthy/locally grown foods to eat, animal care demonstrations (including wildlife rescue), games for the children made of recycled products, musicians and actors performing environmental music and skits, stalls which are recycling unwanted treasures and books, local environmental organisations presenting their issues and wares. Money raised can go towards a local environmental restoration project or to an environmental group agreed upon by all the participants running the fair.
Teach others about the enviorment
Wear green and/or brown. If you have any badges that have to do with the earth, wear those!
Cook a special Earth Day meal. Plan a menu that uses locally produced foods, is healthy and has minimal impact on the environment. Favour vegetable and bean products, as these use less resources to grow than mass-farmed meat. If you still would like meat, look for locally produced, organic meat. Try and have organic food completely. Decorate the table with recycled decorations made by you and your friends.
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